Life at 40 shouldn't be boring! I will share with you the uncensored truth about approaching midlife and all the adventures in between!


I am an imperfect; beautiful mess and it has taken me years to accept and appreciate that about myself. I am my tag line, raw and uncensored. Life is too short to not say what you mean, be authentic and stay true to who you are. I am a full-time working, single mother of three handsome and crazy boys, ages 20, 15 & 2 months old. Yep that's right... starting over with a new bambino in my 40's with almost grown children. I have a wonderful fiancé in my life that supports all my crazy ideas. I love writing and reading and I tend to think I am pretty funny so hence another reason I wanted to start a blog. People all over must hear what I have to say. 


I am loyal to a fault and by fault, I mean I would help one of my best friends bury a dead body if asked. Dance has been my passion and hobby for the better part of the last 20 years.  I work hard and try to play harder. Although, now in my 40's that seems to hold an entirely different meaning than at 25.


I love reading, yoga, girl time, camping (in a trailer of course) and shopping on Amazon. I am obsessed with self-help audio books, reality TV (insert fist pump here), travelling, mimosas, wedding cake and bath bombs. I never take myself too seriously. My goal for this blog is to tell stories that make others feel good about themselves… not in a Gandhi type way but, more of a we are all hot messes keeping it together with duct tape sort of way.

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favorite things

  • Amazon

  • Hot Yoga & Hot Spin

  • Cafe Rio Salads

  • Self-help books

  • Dirty Coke's & Mimosas

  • Baby Brezza (Keurig for Formula)